Please.. Its killing me.. I need advice?

wow uh... you've just found yourself trapped in a stalemate, and you need to get out of it. how? you gotta do something. make it happen. sounds cliched but it's so true, you gotta make the first move, start making signs to her that are blatantly obvious. it sounds hard but it's really not. trust me. after all if you become a laughing stock because of it, then what have you to lose? you tried and gave it a go, and they decided to be the losers and laugh at someone for trying. it's worth it if you think it is. good luck.