One sided love in a mutual relationship?

Just **** off that girl dear. She loves herself only. Dont go down to her. If you make her to realize everything means..... thats not a love. Love is a feel. No one cant to explain that. Because am also a girl. I feel my bf feeling and obey his words. But she is not loving you. So better you leave her. God may help you. Dont spoil your life for a selfish girl. All the best.